One of the most difficult moments in a
boy’s life is when he likes a girl, the girl of his dreams, but he
is too shy for asking her a first date. Fortunately this problem
finishes when they get married! Most of the boys consider that their
love failure is caused by lack of money or by an unpleasant physical
aspect. They don’t know that beyond what can be seen at first
sight, it is important the way they are able to highlight their own
portrait. If he has a great method, any boy can make any girl to like
him. All he has to do is to be confident and to follow some easy
steps:
1. Always wear neat clothes and
care for your image when you go out. You don’t have to be
the most handsome boy in town, but you have to show that your look is
important for you. Your clothes must match your personality and you
should use after shave or perfume, but discretely.
Avoid
leaving the house if you look neglected, even if your parents send
you to the market place to buy potatoes. You never know when you meet
a nice girl and you want to ask her phone number or even a date.
Don’t forget that the first impression is very important and your
neat aspect is a point you won.
2. Think carefully
before saying something. It does not matter what kind of girls you
are interested in, you’ll see that there is a general truth
concerning them. All the girls like compliments! Flattering them
you’ll get to come closer to them, than using a bitchy speech or a
vulgar, rude behaviour. If the girl you want to impress is an older
acquintance of yours, you can start a conversation about her
qualities or about what you are sure she likes at herself.
If
you want to conquer a girl whom you don’t know, you can make a
joke, but you have to be careful what kind of joke you make, or you
may ask her to help you make a decision. For example, if you are at
the supermarket, you can ask for a piece of advice concerning the
best brand of coffee for example. Girls like to give a helping hand
to helpless boys. Use any situation and make it beneficial for you.
3. Never be afraid to ask what
you want. If a date is what you want, but you don’t know that girl
very well, firstly ask her phone number. If she likes you, she will
offer you her phone number and she will also ask yours. On the phone
you will have more courage to ask a date, actually it is well known
that after a phone numbers exchange comes a first date.
When
you phone her and invite her out, be nice, polite, and also try to
have the sense of humour. Think previously of what you will tell her,
but don’t utter a speech because you won’t let a good impression.
4. Establish an action plan.
Once you obtain the date of your dreams, think how you can seduce her
during the following hours, suggesting her an entertaining activity.
You could ask her how would be her ideal date, and if you could let
her dreams come true, furthermore you may ask her if you can find a
little place in her dream.
Of course, you can surprise her
any time with an original date, an unexpected one, but you should not
surprise her negatively with a weird initiative which does not fit
her personality.
Some girls are impressed by your
results at school, by your intelligence or your general knowledge.
Don’t try to make her agree with your opinions or wishes; some
girls may prefer to dominate and can’t stand around them bossy
boys. If you consider that your point of view is the right one, bring
logical arguments or make her feel that you are right. Some girls
treat boys with a maternal attention and you shouldn’t refuse it.
Some girls are sensible to other people’s necessities, so they will
be receptive to everything you want. There are girls who like society
a lot, therefore you should introduce your girl friend to your
friends.
To make a girl like you is not that complicated, as
it seems. Actually, girls are as excited as boys during such moments.
Be yourself, be confident, don’t be very excited, keep your sense
of humour in any situation and you’ll see that it is not difficult
to be loved by girls. Sometimes it is a good thing to take into
account the date of birth of the girl you like, and to study your
compatibility with her. This will help you be more confident when you
start a relationship with her. Girls are interested in astrology, you
know...
